Safety with Alzheimer’s Patients or Any Elderly

As many of you know my Mom has Alzheimer’s.  I would like to address what we did for her “safety” as people with Alzheimer’s move around,  especially at night!

First off we put dead bolts on the doors which can only be unlocked with a key.  My Dad keeps the keys with him at all times.  This way she cannot unlock the doors and go outside.

Another thing we did was go and take out the steps in the house and made ramps, as she walks on a walker.  People with Alzheimer’s will forget a step is there.  Even on the car port (which now leads up to the back door) we made a concrete ramp where she comes out.  All inside ramps were carpeted with indoor/outdoor carpet as the wheels on the  walker can move smoothly over this.  (In fact all of their carpet is of low “pile.”  No shag or plush)

We tore the bathtub out and replaced it with a shower stall which she does not even have to lift her foot to get into.  I went and got her a stool where she sits down in the shower, and we placed a shelf  there for her shampoo, soaps, etc… that she can reach while sitting.  We also placed a bar within the shower, a long one, so if she begins to fall she can grab it.  We placed another bar lengthwise when she comes out of the shower for her to hold onto. 

I went and got yet another stool, so she can sit on  drying off.  That way she does not stoop nor bend to get to her feet.  So far she uses all stools and bars, without hesitation.

We made clear paths in the entire house which were taken up by coffee tables, decorations, etc…  This way there is nothing for her to fall over.  We went and made all door frames wider also, so her scooter can go through them smoothly and she can also turn it.

All medications are locked up, we have home health come in and put her medicine in her Sunday through Sunday medication tray.  This is also locked up.  We sit the alarm clock for the times she is to take her medication, and when she hears it she ”sometimes” connects.  This also helps us to remember as she takes about 20 pills a day.

When the sun starts going down, someone is always with mother.  Well someone is always with her anyways, but we pay careful attention to the “sun downers.”  Alzheimer’s patients seem to get disoriented when evening begins to approach.

I truly hope this helps anyone, who is dealing with this dreaded disease.

God Bless, SR

About SR

I am a Catholic who likes to share things regarding my life, faith, and Church. I am a wife, mother, and Mee-Mee. I also love animals and the outdoors. The greatest gift outside of the Death of Christ I have ever recieved is when God sent the Blessed Mother to call me into the Catholic Churuch. Would love to hear what you have to say! God Bless, SR
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8 Responses to Safety with Alzheimer’s Patients or Any Elderly

  1. Well done, SR. This is very thorough. I have many patients with Alzheimer’s Disease and it takes a particularly hard toll not just on the patient but on the family.

    • SR says:

      Hey 8 Kids,

      Thank you and thanks for comment. It was a lot of hard work as we did it ourselves, (Daddy, siblings, and myself) but these changes have allowed us to keep her at home, until we cannot any longer. She is able to move around “freely” which as you know is very important, for them. It is hard on us but like everything else we deal with in life, it is all how one “embraces” it. Again thanks for comment and God Bless, SR

  2. Biltrix says:

    I think it is beautiful and admirable that your mom can continue living in at her home with the family with all the accommodations she needs. You’ve made some tremendous and wonderful sacrifices for sure. Be assured of my prayers for her and your family.

    • SR says:

      Hey Biltrix,

      Yes, it is beautiful that she can continue to live at home, as no one will take care of her, as we do. We do it the best we can. I pray the Lord will allow her to die at home, and not in some nursing home. Thank you so much for your prayers as we need them. Thanks for encouraging comment and God Bless, SR

  3. Lyn says:

    Very good, SR! Before we moved to Canada, I worked in long term care, first in the Special Care Unit, then in Social Services. I was somehow drawn to the Dementia unit, and found so much fulfillment in my work there. I LOVE that you are able to keep her home with you, and you are doing a great job in making her safe.

    Naomi Feil has a lot of really good information for dementia care, if you haven’t already, find a workshop done by her, it is AWESOME! She also has books about validation…really good stuff. http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_ss_gw?url=search-alias%3Daps&field-keywords=naomi+feil&x=0&y=0&tag=askcom05-20

    • SR says:

      Yes, it is good we are able to keep her at home. We do have our moments though, but they pass:>) Thanks so much for the info. Will be sure to check into it. We try to keep her safe and comfortable. Hope all is well with you and thanks for comment. God Bless, SR

  4. Oh S.R. I can imagine how nerve racking this must be for you. I can only encourage you to never lose heart. I tear up when I go through the list. One of my grandmothers suffered from this dreaded disease. I was a little kid then, and I did not understand what was going on.

    Thanks so much for sharing. I pray that the good Lord above will continue to strengthen and comfort you and your family. God blesses.

    • SR says:

      Hey Noel,

      Thank you so much for your prayers and such a touching comment. It has been hard, but with the grace of our Lord, we have managed. It is getting a little rough now, but we are still managing. It is hard for us all, but I think the thing which I will always remember is, “she never stops being mother.” Now we may be six months old in her mind, but she is still a mother. God Bless, SR

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